In-group/out-group language
"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words can scar a lifetime." Maura J. Cullen
"We often get confused as to why some people can use derogatory words or jokes and it is acceptable, while others who say exactly the same thing are judged and received negative reactions. The answer is easy. If you are not a member of the group being described by the derogatory words, then it is best not to use it!" (Cullen, 2008 p. 30)
DUMB STATEMENTS...
"What do 'Your' people think?"
"What are you?" or "Where are you 'Really' from?"
"You speak the language very well."
"If you are going to live in this country, learn to speak the language!"
Referring to older people as "Cute".
"Why do 'they' (fill in the blank) always have to sit together? They are always sticking together."
"That's so gay/queer" or "That's so retarded."
Saying to a Jewish person "You are so lucky to have 'your' Christmas spread over a week!"
DUMB STATEMENTS...
"What do 'Your' people think?"
"What are you?" or "Where are you 'Really' from?"
"You speak the language very well."
"If you are going to live in this country, learn to speak the language!"
Referring to older people as "Cute".
"Why do 'they' (fill in the blank) always have to sit together? They are always sticking together."
"That's so gay/queer" or "That's so retarded."
Saying to a Jewish person "You are so lucky to have 'your' Christmas spread over a week!"